Real men who can truly love a woman do exist
but they are hard to find but these are signs to
watch out for in a serial womaniser.
but they are hard to find but these are signs to
watch out for in a serial womaniser.
Many of us are still looking for The One – the guy
we will spend the rest of our lives with. Our soul
mate who will be there for us all the time, loving
us, comforting us, sharing moments with us and
protecting us.
Finding the one guy that is perfect for you is not
easy, and many of us are scared of making the
same dating mistakes over again. Many of us have
dated the creeps, the losers, the lazies, the crazies,
the overly sickly sweets, the FIFA players, the
machos, the mommies boys, and the over
achievers who we can’t keep up with. But what
about the one type of man we all fear the most,
The Womanizer?
The womanizer is a man who isn’t ready to settle
down yet, but he’ll do anything to convince you that
he is. He’ll tell you you’re the love of your life and
that you’ve got great eyes, great legs and great
everything.
But how do you know when you’ve got a
womanizer on your hands and not the genuine
article? Let’s take a look at the top 10 warning
signs of a womanizer.
1. He Gets Your Name Wrong
Yesterday you were Rita, today you’re Lisa and
tomorrow you’ll be Priscilla. Sure, he says he’s got
fifteen aunties and five different moms but you
should know deep down that he’s actually got too
many single ladies in his life.
tomorrow you’ll be Priscilla. Sure, he says he’s got
fifteen aunties and five different moms but you
should know deep down that he’s actually got too
many single ladies in his life.
2. He’s Super Vain
For a lot of women, having a great sense of
humour is the first trait we look for in a
prospective partner. But if a man is a womanizer,
it’s highly likely that his sense of humour cuts
dead as soon as you touch his immaculate hair.
Don’t try to touch his suits either because they
cost a bomb.
humour is the first trait we look for in a
prospective partner. But if a man is a womanizer,
it’s highly likely that his sense of humour cuts
dead as soon as you touch his immaculate hair.
Don’t try to touch his suits either because they
cost a bomb.
“Please tell me you did not just put my dry-clean
only suit in the wash? I. MIGHT. DIE.”
3. He Never Lives Up To His Word
We’ve all felt a rush of blood to our heads as our
man tells us what he’s going to do for us. He’s
going to take us away for a romantic weekend,
introduced us to his family, and basically capture
the moon for us.
man tells us what he’s going to do for us. He’s
going to take us away for a romantic weekend,
introduced us to his family, and basically capture
the moon for us.
It all sounds so exciting and we instantly buy into
his dream. His words have swept us off our feet.
After a few weeks and months, though, he still
hasn’t made good on his word. You’ve still not
been away for a weekend together (as a matter of
fact, he seems to spend most of his weekends
away on his own), and you haven’t even met his
family. Is this guy for real and are his endless list
of excuses just a cover-up? You bet!
4. He Has A Reputation
If women have come up to you or messaged you
on Facebook that your new man has got a
reputation, you shouldn’t swiftly dismiss this
accusations as manifestations of jealousy. Instead,
you should hear them out and make up your own
mind.
on Facebook that your new man has got a
reputation, you shouldn’t swiftly dismiss this
accusations as manifestations of jealousy. Instead,
you should hear them out and make up your own
mind.
5. He Only Seems To Appear Later At Night
From my experience, this is the biggest tell-tale
sign of them all that you’ve got a perennial
womanizer on your hands.
sign of them all that you’ve got a perennial
womanizer on your hands.
Your man should be available day and night, and
not just “any time after ten PM.” It just isn’t good
enough that he only makes a cameo appearance
when the sun has set. Sure, he tells you that he’s
been working late or whatnot, but you know deep
down that something just doesn’t seem right here.
A man who isn’t a womanizer will want to see you
at all times, and not at the witching hour only.
6. When He Compliments You All The Time
They say that when a guy compliments us too
much it usually means they’re feeling guilty about
something, or they’ve got something to hide.
much it usually means they’re feeling guilty about
something, or they’ve got something to hide.
Sometimes, guys will shower us with compliments
whenever they’re feeling good about something –
such as a spot of womanising.
When a man looks into your eyes and tells you
how beautiful you are, it’s sincere and genuine.
But when he’s hyper and won’t stop covering you
with compliments about your eyes, your legs, your
hair, your bum et cetera, you should be on your
guard.
7. He Moves Really Fast
You haven’t even introduced yourself and he
already wants to buy a house with you and have all
your babies. Red flag.
already wants to buy a house with you and have all
your babies. Red flag.
8. He Locks His Phone
We all locked our phones when we were kids (still
no idea why), but no normal adult does this in
2016.
no idea why), but no normal adult does this in
2016.
Except womanizers, of course.
If you notice that his phone is constantly buzzing
and he’s always texting someone, it’s a pretty big
warning sign. But if he also locks his phone so
that you can never access it, it’s a full on red-alert
that he’s not the man for you.
9. He Doesn’t Call Back For Ages
You’ve just had a great night with him that you
both seemed to enjoy. You had a laugh, some
dinner and a bit of romance. It went so well.
both seemed to enjoy. You had a laugh, some
dinner and a bit of romance. It went so well.
But then he doesn’t return your call for days
afterwards. What gives?
Eventually, of course, he will return and say that he
was busy or something equally empty. He’ll want
another giggle, some more dinner and a bit more
romance again.
Take all this as a warning sign. He only wants you
when he’s got a few needs to fulfil. Once they’ve
been taken care of, he’s off to look for other
adventures.
10.He Flirts On Social Media
Facebook is often a great place to find out whether
or not your man is a womanizer. If he isn’t a
womanizer, his photos and comments will be
totally normal and respectful. There might be
pictures of him enjoying a drink with the lads, and
maybe one or two of his mom.
or not your man is a womanizer. If he isn’t a
womanizer, his photos and comments will be
totally normal and respectful. There might be
pictures of him enjoying a drink with the lads, and
maybe one or two of his mom.
If, however, he can’t get enough of the opposite
sex, you can expect to see lots of photos of him
on regular nights out with lots of different girls.
You’ll also notice flirty comments and invitations
to hang out with all kinds of women you’ve never
heard of before. No matter how much he tells you
he loves you, it’s clear that he can’t control his
appetite for girls.
