Relationships can be really exhilarating but they
can also be destroyed by immaturity. These are
signs that your partner is immature.
Most guys have a childish side to their personality
and like to be the big kid sometimes, but some
men take it to the extreme. At first, you might find
his immaturity quite endearing, but that
childishness can wear a bit thin after a while. Don’t
get caught out dating a guy who can’t seem to
take life seriously at all and look for these signs
that you are dating an immature man.
and like to be the big kid sometimes, but some
men take it to the extreme. At first, you might find
his immaturity quite endearing, but that
childishness can wear a bit thin after a while. Don’t
get caught out dating a guy who can’t seem to
take life seriously at all and look for these signs
that you are dating an immature man.
1. Immature man hates being depended on
One of the most obvious signs of an immature
man is that he absolutely dislikes being depended
on. When things go wrong, the immature man
won’t be there helping you out. The men-boys of
the world will do anything to avoid being the one
that people depend on. He’d rather ignore
problems and hope that they go away.
the world will do anything to avoid being the one
that people depend on. He’d rather ignore
problems and hope that they go away.
2. He can’t hold a serious conversation
Another sign that your man has yet to grow up is
his inability to hold an intelligent and meaningful
conversation. Communication will not be on his
list of skills, he would rather make a joke of things
and move on to a lighter topic quickly.
his inability to hold an intelligent and meaningful
conversation. Communication will not be on his
list of skills, he would rather make a joke of things
and move on to a lighter topic quickly.
3. He’s never had a proper girlfriend before
Next one of obvious signs of an immature man is
that he probably never stayed in a meaningful
relationship before in his life. That doesn’t bode
well for you, because this lad has a lot of learning
to do and you are going to have to be the teacher.
Starting a career in teaching is probably not exactly
what you had in mind when you met him. So you
might want to think twice about staying with this
type of guy.
that he probably never stayed in a meaningful
relationship before in his life. That doesn’t bode
well for you, because this lad has a lot of learning
to do and you are going to have to be the teacher.
Starting a career in teaching is probably not exactly
what you had in mind when you met him. So you
might want to think twice about staying with this
type of guy.
4. Immature man has no idea what he wants for
the future
If your man is immature then it is quite likely that
he doesn’t plan much beyond tomorrow, let alone
for the next ten years. Living day by sound like a
great idea, but a mature man will, at least, have
some idea of what kind of future he wants for
himself.
he doesn’t plan much beyond tomorrow, let alone
for the next ten years. Living day by sound like a
great idea, but a mature man will, at least, have
some idea of what kind of future he wants for
himself.
5. You’re only his girlfriend when that fits on with
his plans
If your man only goes out with you, when it suits
him and is willing to cancel, at the drop of a hat,
to go out with his buddies instead, then this is a
definite sign that he needs to do some growing up.
A real man will show some commitment and be
willing to make you his priority.
him and is willing to cancel, at the drop of a hat,
to go out with his buddies instead, then this is a
definite sign that he needs to do some growing up.
A real man will show some commitment and be
willing to make you his priority.
6. Immature man can never make up his mind
Another one of clear signs of an immature man is
that, alongside his lack of commitment will be a
lack of ability to be decisive too. You’ll probably
find that it’s you who are making all the decisions
for him and making all the running in the
relationship. Just like a kid, he will be perfectly
happy for someone else to take all the tough
decisions.
that, alongside his lack of commitment will be a
lack of ability to be decisive too. You’ll probably
find that it’s you who are making all the decisions
for him and making all the running in the
relationship. Just like a kid, he will be perfectly
happy for someone else to take all the tough
decisions.
7. He probably can’t hold down a job either
An immature guy will probably find it hard to take
a job seriously, and so he flits from one job to
another, if he even has a job at all. He finds work
dull and boring, and all that getting up early and
being serous is too much of a drag for him to be
putting up with.
a job seriously, and so he flits from one job to
another, if he even has a job at all. He finds work
dull and boring, and all that getting up early and
being serous is too much of a drag for him to be
putting up with.
8. Nothing is ever his fault
Next one of obvious signs of an immature man is
that, just like a petulant child, he will never take
the blame for anything, he will never accept
responsibility for his actions and he will certainly
never say that he is sorry. He will always have an
excuse, or blame someone else, just like a naughty
little boy would.
that, just like a petulant child, he will never take
the blame for anything, he will never accept
responsibility for his actions and he will certainly
never say that he is sorry. He will always have an
excuse, or blame someone else, just like a naughty
little boy would.
9. Immature man can be really spiteful
Another trait of an immature mind is the ability to
be spiteful and cruel. He probably doesn’t really
mean to be really hurtful, but he’s not mature
enough to realise when he does. If a man really
loves you, he wouldn’t want to hurt you; an
immature man doesn’t take life seriously enough
to even worry about things like that.
be spiteful and cruel. He probably doesn’t really
mean to be really hurtful, but he’s not mature
enough to realise when he does. If a man really
loves you, he wouldn’t want to hurt you; an
immature man doesn’t take life seriously enough
to even worry about things like that.
10. He eats nothing but pizza and beer
You can always tell an immature man by his
shopping list. Mr Man-child is likely to have
nothing more than frozen pizza and beer on his,
and his idea of sophistication will be drinking his
beer from a glass. Fine dining certainly won’t be
on the agenda, when you date a man who has yet
to grow up.
shopping list. Mr Man-child is likely to have
nothing more than frozen pizza and beer on his,
and his idea of sophistication will be drinking his
beer from a glass. Fine dining certainly won’t be
on the agenda, when you date a man who has yet
to grow up.
