MARRIAGE: 4 Promises Guys Cannot keep.

MARRIAGE: 4 PROMISES GUYS CAN’T KEEP
The word promise is one of the most occurring
words in marital relationships. Promise means to
tell someone that you will definitely do something
or something will happen.

For a courtship to lead to marriage, a promise must
be kept. Even a lasting Marriage is a promise well
kept.

In courtship, guys make several promises to ladies
who make them happy and eager for wedding but
there are some of these promises that cannot be
kept by men in marriage. Is it becoming a puzzle to
you? Read on and get the clarifications.

1. I WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU: Being together as
husband and wife is one of the most treasured
times in marriage but it is not possible to be
together for 24 hours in 365 days in a year. He
can’t always be where you were all the time. There
are times both of you will be in two different
places. For instance when you go to your various
offices or when one of you is on official assignment
out of your locality. What matter most is
faithfulness though you may be out of sight but not
out of heart. Don’t play a fast game against one
another. Let there be re-assurance and constant
phone calls echoed with this magical trio i.e. “I
love you”.

2. I WILL NEVER HURT YOU: It is not possible for
two people to live together without offending one
another. He will definitely offend you while you too
cannot but offend him.

Though it may not be deliberate even in courtship,
expect it. If he’s keeping a clean sheet in courtship ­
beware! He must be pretending and he will later
explode in marriage. Certain actions of his will hurt
you but you must be ready to forgive without
nursing its wound. Expect mis-understanding, it is
the pathway to understanding. No matter what
happens, friendliness should be a hallmark of a
Christian home because marriage is a union
between two imperfect people working towards
perfection.

3. I WILL D0 EVERYTHING FOR YOU: He must have
turned this to lyrics that is sang to your hearing
almost every time you meet but the truth is you will
be disappointed in marriage, If this is your
expectations because he can’t do everything for
you. He may teach you how to drive, pay the house
rents, bought clothes for you but consider when he
will be down without physical ability to do anything
even machine, breakdown atimes. He can’t carry the
pregnancy for you, it’s exclusive for ladies, and he
can only demonstrate care during the period. He
can be in the labour room with you during delivery
but can’t experience the pain in the process of
delivery. But the real man will stay with his wife in
hospital duringdelivery while careless men will
neglect their wives at this period.

4. I WILL PROVIDE FOR ALL YOUR NEEDS: Don’t go
into marriage with the aim of having all your needs
met lest you lose passion for the man you married.
There atimes when something are not within his
reach which may be due to financial inability. Of
course, he can’t give you what he didn’t have. You
don’t have to be offended for marriage is not just
about receiving alone, you too have to give
something in return-contribute your own quota
towards the development of that union.
Complement one another’s effort. Don’t look for
what to get rather seek for what to give. He can’t
provide for all your needs, only God can do this.
Get this into your mind and don’t be offended while
he falls short of this.

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promises-guys-cannot-keep/