Most of us love the notion of being in a
relationship that lasts forever; A relationship that
is strong and withstands the test of time. But the
reality can be a hard pill to swallow, with many
marriages ending in divorce.
Here are seven secrets of couples who stick
together forever:
1. Learn to forgive, forget and move on
This is one of the most important factors that
determine the longevity of a relationship. Unless
both partners are forgiving, a relationship cannot
last long.
2. Have healthy fights
When two adults live together, fights are inevitable.
It is how we fight and resolve issues that matter.
Having healthy fights can be a sign of a healthy
relationship. Just ensure that the purpose of your
fight is to resolve issues, rather than to throw
accusations and/or blame each other.
3. Discuss finances
As much as you would like it to be otherwise, life
is not a fairytale. You need to face practical issues
such as each other’s finances and savings, and
your future money-oriented goals.
4. Keep boredom at bay
Nothing can kill a relationship faster than boredom.
We, as humans are programmed to gravitate to
new experiences. So when a relationship gets stale
and boring, our need for something new and
exciting arises. How do you keep boredom at bay?
Talk to your partner, find out hobbies and interests
that you both share and nurture that.
5. Hold each other’s hands whenever you can
There is actual scientific evidence to back up the
theory that holding hands can make your
relationship stronger.
6. Show appreciation
Never take your partner/spouse for granted.
Showing appreciation and gratitude for both the
little and big things that they do is a great way to
let them know that you notice and are grateful for
their efforts.
7. Share a kiss in bed before falling asleep
With work and life taking its toll, spending quality
time with your partner is becoming more difficult.
Most couples have scheduled s*x, preferably on
the weekends when they don’t have to worry about
work. So what about the rest of the nights? Just
because you don’t have the time or energy for s*x
does not mean you cannot have a special, intimate
moment. It can be something as simple as kissing
your partner good night, every night, that can
strengthen your bond and bring you closer
together.
All these ingredients come together to ensure that
a couple stays together, no matter what hurdles
life throws at them.
